3 Keys to a real green life


In the previous section, What is a "real green life,"​ ​I ​mentioned that ​three aspects of our culture ​​make it harder than it should be to live ​a ​​satisfying, ​meaningful life​ that will enable our children and grandchildren to thrive. 

​Lets ​take a look at these three aspects of our culture, and then we'll see if we can unpack the solution from within the problem...


​1. Our culture doesn't encourage us to think for ourselves
​​​No ​corporation ​or government wants the public to think for themselves and take responsibility for ​how their actions impact on the web of life.
Such behavior would have a terrible impact on the economy.

​A ​multitude of influences, from childhood conditioning to sophisticated marketing, all influence ​our thinking in ways we rarely examine, let alone take control of.

Without most of us even noticing it, we’ve become “institutionalized.”

How? By ​the hordes of experts and social institutions ​who wait at our elbows to provide for us, think for us, and rescue us from our mistakes.

This erodes our capacity to think for ourselves and take responsibility for our own lives. ​

​In addition, ​profit orientated corporations who rely on endlessly expanding consumerism​ need to influence ​our ​thinking towards two very specific outcomes

​The first ​is to create a sense of lack, a hunger for "more," in our lives.

The second outcome is to direct our focus towards the ​gadgets, gizmos and entertainment, that they imply will fill the void.  

The technology employed to direct ​our thoughts in this way is extremely sophisticated, and the budgets allocated to it are vast. 

Unless we make a conscious effort to screen out unwanted influences and direct our own focus, our minds are no longer our own.

"​From the moment you first see a TV screen or a billboard, your mental health is under attack.” 

​Steve Biddulph, Raising Boys



​2. Our culture doesn't encourage us to ​provide for ourselves

​The second of our 3 challenges is the direct outcome of the "institutionalised" thing I meantioned above: we are conditioned to rely on ​others to provide for us.

​We've lost ​the practical skills of self-reliance and the skills of community interdependence that sustained us before experts, institutes, corporations, supermarkets and superstores took over providing for our needs. ​

Too many of us literally no longer know how to live in community or look after ourselves.


​3. Our culture doesn't encourage us to connect

​Our third challenge is that although we're plugged into social media ​

(or perhaps because we're plugged into social media)

​​our connections to any strong internal moral compass, to ​each other, ​and to the natural world are fraying, or severed completely.

​As a culture, we've ​accepted ​an ideology​ that ​defines us as single, isolated entities who are separate from and superior to the rest of nature​ – ​which results in the assumption that individuals, families ​and businesses can somehow carry on without regard for their impact on each other and on other living things.

​​This ideology also gives rise to the ​sense of loneliness and isolation ​that ​looms as the shadow of our culture's ​​obsession with heroic individualism​

"​...Competition and individualism ... is the religion of our time, justified by a mythology of lone rangers, sole traders, self-starters, self-made men and women, going it alone. For the most social of creatures, who cannot prosper without love, [this is a recipe for misery].” 

​George Monbiot, The Age of Loneliness is Killing Us

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​​Turning the problem into the solution

​You can see where I'm going, I'm sure. Turned inside out, these three challenges ​present us with three powerful keys​: ​

1. Thinking for ourselves

We need to think differently than is typical in our culture. In particular we need to think for ourselves and re-build our personal autonomy.

"Thinking Differently" is one of the major topics on ARealGreenLife.

2. Providing for ourselves

We need to regain the the practical, hands-on skills of self-sufficiency.

And we need to build sustainable lifestyles ​by doing more for ourselves and each other, and by choosing ethical businesses for the things we cannot do ourselves.

"Sustainable Living" is the second major topic on ARealGreenLife.

3. Reconnecting

Thirdly, we need to reconnect – to re-build our connections in three areas:

  • to a meaningful personal moral compass,
  • to the natural world, and
  • to each other – to the network of family and community that makes sustainable self-sufficiency possible. 

At ​this stage ​I haven't attempted to address ​this third key in a single category of writing, since its about the connections between everything and isolating it out seems to negate that. 

However, you'll find the idea that "everything is connected," recurring throughout my writing.


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