October 24, 2026

Edible weeds are wild, complex, and full of real nutrition that our bodies can recognise and understand. Here are some common edible weeds, ways of eating them, and a recipe for “weed vinegar,” to increase your mineral intake without a bottle of pills anywhere in sight.

Mineral Rich Edible Weeds and Ways to Make the Most of Them
October 9, 2026

The purpose of life is to allow it to stretch us, so we can live more of it.

What Is the Purpose of Life?
September 22, 2026

I can make a difference in my outer world most easily by tending to my inner world. When I feel better, my life feels better, and then the world around me feels better too.

We Shape Our Lives by How We Live Them
July 31, 2026

Reflecting as a mother on the transition my teenage son is making toward manhood, and how I can best support him.

Thoughts for Mothers of Teenage Boys on the Making of Self-Respecting Men
June 9, 2026

Batch cooked rice can provide a base for a variety of meals without having to be prepped and cooked from scratch each time. I use brown rice and soak/ferment it using a perpetual rice starter, for maximum nutrition and digestibility.

Brown Rice Batch Cooking Tips and How to Use a Perpetual Rice Starter
May 4, 2026

I’m writing right after a full moon, reflecting on struggle, trauma, and how full moon energy can stir things up. This post includes thoughts on compassion for self and others, and the sense that something larger is holding us.

You Are Not Alone: Words for When Life Feels Hard
April 12, 2026

There are so many ways to use chokos and choko vines. People food (including recipes), animal food, weed control, and mulch are among the uses listed in this post.

Uses for Chokos – Kitchen Recipes, Animal Feed, and Help in the Garden
March 29, 2026

When the inner critic gets out of hand, the sense that something’s wrong with your parenting can be crippling. But inside of you and your children an undamaged presence shines like the sun, and the clouds that sometimes cover it are only temporary.

Good Enough and Just in Time – Self Compassion for Parents
March 15, 2026

What if the inner critic’s drive to fix everything is part of the problem? The most effective thing we can do to make a difference is not whatever work we do in the world around us. It’s to become conscious of the roles we’re playing in the stories we are part of.

The Space Between Stories: Letting go of Control Might be the Best Way to Help
March 8, 2026

​Anxiety and overwhelm feel horrible. And a scattered, dis-regulated nervous system affects EVERYTHING, especially our relationships. ​​Breathing can help. In this post I share ​how​ paying attention to your breath can help you calm your nervous system, bring you back to yourself, and even help ease the sense that there is never enough time.

Breathe Yourself Home
January 24, 2026

On finding the sacred in everyday moments like breakfast – personal peace practices of presence, reverence, connection, pleasure, and gratitude for 2026.

Reverence, Connection, Gratitude — Personal Peace Practices for 2026
December 3, 2025

In the culture and times that most of us are finding ourselves in right now, this is the most counter-intuitive work there is — and by far the most needed.

Emotional Regulation: 3 Simple Practices for Peace This Holiday Season
November 18, 2025

​Purslane ​is one of those “weeds” that volunteer themselves right on our doorsteps to provide free, nutritious food far surpassing anything we’ll ever find in a supermarket. Its eaten throughout the warm, dry parts of the world, in an endless variety of ways.

Purslane: A Nutritious Weed With Lots of Culinary Possibilities
October 12, 2025

A homegrown roast chicken on our table represents ​a journey from helpless dependence towards becoming more self-reliant, more interconnected, and better able to contribute something of value to the world.

The Real Value of a Chicken
October 11, 2025

A brief review of Ecosia, the search engine alternative to Google that plants trees​.

Ecosia – Search Engine That Plants Trees
August 18, 2025

Volition is a source of energy that informs our intentions and energizes our actions, but not all volition comes from the heart. When we’re swept away by clever, compelling messaging from outside of ourselves, we lose touch with our internal volition — with our values and our authentic desires.

Nourish Your Intentions With Mindfulness
August 7, 2025

Taro is an easy-to-grow, nutritious homegrown alternative to rice and pasta from the supermarket. It can be a self-renewing food source, especially useful for when extreme weather events cut supply chains — because the wetter it gets, the happier taro is.

Growing Taro: an Easy, Nutritious Homegrown Carbohydrate Solution
August 6, 2025

If you grew up without learning that mistakes are ok you may have developed a strong inner critic who, like a 5 year old trying to prevent trouble, now controls your adult life to keep you from taking risks. The antidote is to give your self the compassionate leadership you missed out on when you were growing up.

What You Were Meant to Learn About Mistakes, and What to do if You Didn’t
July 9, 2025

Simple full moon journaling and breath work rituals to help you celebrate achievements and illuminate the obstacles blocking your path.

Full Moon Rituals to Discover Your Gifts and Illuminate Your Obstacles
July 6, 2025

This post demonstrates how urban foraging can transform your relationship with nature, wellness, and community. By GUEST AUTHOR Chelsey Reis.

6 Unexpected Benefits of Urban Foraging
July 5, 2025

Each time I benefit​ from the perspective that hindsight offers, it adds a little to my ability to surrender to the present moment.

The Power of Hindsight
May 10, 2025

When we feel disconnected, everything falls apart. What if instead of scrambling to try to control everything in our lives, we just focused on restoring our spiritual connection, whatever that means for each of us?

Reconnecting Can Change Everything
April 15, 2025

I used to put off the task of rendering fat for cooking, soap making, and skin care – because it was time consuming, messy, and intimidating. After making every imaginable (and some un-imaginable) mistake, here’s the simple method I use now. Clean, odour-free rendered fat without the mess and stress.

How to Render Fat For Cooking, Soap-Making, Skin-care Recipes, or Candle-Making
April 11, 2025

Locating power outside of myself leads to me trying to create safety for myself by controlling the people and events around me. Conversely, locating power within myself liberates me to change my internal experience regardless of my outer relationships or circumstances — and that makes a difference to how satisfied and effective I can be both personally and in my efforts to make a difference in the world around me.

Where Am I Locating Power – Inside or Outside of Me?
December 16, 2024

In this post I share my definition of a village, why we all need one (whether or not we’re raising children), and the paradox you need to grasp that may enable you to start building your own village even when doing so seems impossible.

We All Need a Village; Here’s How to Build One
November 24, 2024

Sweet potato tubers + greens combined give you a calorie AND nutrient dense food from one growing space. Here’s how to grow them at home, including ideas for protecting them from rodents.

How to Grow Sweet Potatoes in Containers and Why You’d Want to
November 22, 2024

What if we lived in a fundamentally intelligent and playful universe in which we could choose to participate, rather than just going along for the ride?

On Power – a Choice Between Stories
October 10, 2024

Over time, wild edibles (weeds) can help us build deep health and resilience, offering a spectrum of nutrition that no supermarket shelf or bottle of pills can ever provide — and weeds are free! Here are six that grow almost everywhere.

Weeds – Deep, Wild Nutrition And Medicine
September 12, 2024

In this essay I share the three aspects of our culture that make it difficult and counter-cultural to live a real green life, and how we can turn those three challenges inside out to unpack the solution (the key) from within the problem.

3 Keys to a Real Green Life
August 6, 2024

Aloe vera is so easy to grow and so useful when you need it. Here is a story, mostly told in pictures, of a nasty chemical burn and how aloe vera came to the rescue.

Using Fresh Aloe Vera Leaf to Treat Burns at Home
June 28, 2024

Here are some of the things I have absolutely had enough of, and some of the changes I want to contribute to. Do you feel the same way? What would you change, in this list?

Do You Feel Like Rebelling Against These Things Too?
June 17, 2024

This post shares two tips to make sure your small scale homegrown food production keeps trucking along even when Life happens and your best gardening intentions go out the window.

2 Tips to Keep Your Garden Producing in the Wet and During Times of Neglect
April 18, 2024

What if the universe was intelligent? And what if our sincere commitment to developing clarity, integration, and alignment within ourselves, as part of that universal intelligence, really mattered?

What if We Lived in an Intelligent Universe?
March 24, 2024

When was the last time you ​went out of your way to eat something that tastes bitter? Wild food enthusiasts and herbalists know that the bitter taste triggers a cascade of health benefits including improved digestion, reduced cravings, and increased well-being.

A Simple Addition To Your Meals With Surprising Health Benefits
February 17, 2024

The Inner Critic is here to stay. But it doesn’t have to be a source of anxiety and overwhelm. Here are 4 steps for making it your ally.

Anxiety and Overwhelm: is This What’s Triggering Them?
November 29, 2023

“REAL” – genuine, authentic, true (as opposed to performed, artificial, imitated, or virtual).
“GREEN” – regenerative/doing as little harm as possible.
“SELF-COMPASSION” – so we can ditch the shoulds, perfectionism, and eco-guilt while we’re being real and green.
Updated July 2026.

A Real Green Life, Without the “Shoulding”
October 22, 2023

It’s uncomfortable to be around someone who is suffering because it wakes up all that’s untended to within our own selves. We can’t stand that, so we hurry to put a band aide over what-ever is hurting in the other person, to quiet things down again, so we can get back to pretending we’re fine.

Why We Try to Fix Other People, and What Might Happen if We Didn’t
June 21, 2023

If we make our food gardens as much like natural ecosystems as we can, full of diversity and interconnections, they’ll be more vigorous and productive with less effort on our part.

Tips For Productive, Low Maintenance Food Gardens
June 12, 2023

Science is when someone asks nature a specific question and receives a specific answer. Science is ALSO when a bunch of fallible human beings all interact with each other in complicated ways to finally agree on what scientific theories they will then present to the rest of the world.

What if the Science Doesn’t Tell the Whole Story?
June 4, 2023

Choices are like coins – they always have two sides, and both sides stack up in terms of the direction we’re going.

Where Are Our Choices Taking Us?
May 2, 2023

7 small ways to start growing your own food, improving your nutrition, and lowering your grocery costs – even if you’re short on time, space, or confidence.

Supermarket Strategy #7 – Seven Ways to Start Growing Your Own Food in Small Spaces
April 2, 2023

A short post on how we use our time and those uncomfortable feelings of “not enough time,” and “not good enough.” Turns out, they might all be connected.

On “Not Enough Time,” and “Not Good Enough”
February 27, 2023

Once you know how to tell a male pumpkin flower from a female one, it’s a simple matter to hand pollinate your female flowers and be sure of more pumpkins, especially in rainy weather when pollinating insects aren’t on the job. (Or your pollinator population has been decimated by pesticides.)

How to Hand Pollinate Pumpkin Flowers
January 31, 2023

Whole foods require more planning and organization than processed convenience foods, but the pay-off is worth it. The benefits include: better nutrition, a feeling of empowerment and reconnection as you learn to engage with your food closer to its source, and the satisfaction in knowing you’re taking better care of the Earth just by how you eat.

Supermarket Strategy #6 – Wise Use of Whole Foods
December 2, 2022

As you learn to inhabit your core Self more easily, and from there to bring your internal world into emotional regulation, you’re also developing the capacities that our wider world is asking of us.

How Tending Your Inner Parts, Besides Making You Feel Better, Helps Mend the World
November 14, 2022

Our physical and social environments have huge influence on our habits and behaviors. People who design supermarkets and sell products know this and take full advantage of it. This post will help you examine what’s shaping your shopping routines and your buying decisions, and learn how to change them.

Strategy #5 – What’s Shaping Your Grocery Shopping Habits?
October 25, 2022

Strategy #4 to help you dethrone the supermarket giants. Includes a link to the previous 3 strategies.

Strategy #4 – to Help Parents Spend Less at the Supermarket
October 12, 2022

Reducing our supermarket reliance and moving toward more real, local food seems more important now than ever. This post shares 3 ideas to get you started or help you along on that path. (Published Oct22; updated Jul26)

Spend Less and Tread Lighter by Examining Your Supermarket Habits
September 24, 2022

We all have an inner life — an inner “garden.” When we neglect it, the useful, beautiful things in it whither and diminish, and the weeds take over. This post shares ways to help your inner garden thrive by tending it in alignment with Nature’s seasons.

New Beginnings in the Garden of You
September 5, 2022

Tips and hints about eating fresh, whole turmeric + our basic recipe for Turmeric Milk, or Golden Milk.

RealFood Turmeric + Golden Milk Recipe
August 29, 2022

How often do you say, “I don’t have time”? What if there were ways you could take ownership of how you experience time in your life?

The Lies That Keep You Trapped in “Not Enough Time”
August 22, 2022

In frost free areas we’re blessed to be able to grow tropical food plants in the summer and better known European style veggies in the winter. This time of year, spring, is especially abundant with its overlap between the cool weather and hot weather plants. This post shares pics and links to info for a small selection of food plants from our garden.

Subtropical Spring in a RealFood Garden
August 7, 2022

Spring​ is the time to look at the “seeds” or intentions we’ve been gestating over winter, to choose those with the best chances of surviving and thriving, and to let go of the rest of them. As in the garden, so in our inner lives. ​Otherwise, ​your coming “growing season” ​may be filled with too ​much stuff, or with stuff that isn’t serving you. And if it isn’t serving you then it also won’t be serving your world, which is an extension of you.

First Day of Spring (Southern Hemisphere)
August 1, 2022

This post shares lots of pics and a few tips on growing and harvesting ginger, and making ginger honey to settle coughs and for colds, flu, and general immune support. There are also some pics and tips on arrowroot harvesting and replanting, since we sometimes grow these two plants together.

Harvesting Ginger, Making Ginger Honey
June 26, 2022

Our “story,” of how the world works and who we are, is like a script that prompts our choices and actions. There is a new story available to us that prompts cooperative and life affirming behaviors rather than competitive and exploitative ones. Indigenous peoples and eastern spirituality have been indicating it, and the newest sciences are finally now “discovering” it. It’s a story that would put us on an entirely different trajectory. 

What’s Going To Happen Next?
June 23, 2022

There’s a reason why the words “food crisis” are making headlines, and it might not be the reason you think. Also in this post: three other random, hopeful things.

Food – are we facing a Crisis or an Opportunity?
June 20, 2022

The lunar cycle offers us a template for reconnecting to Nature and living in more balanced, regenerative ways. In this post: lunar cycle and full moon concepts I’ve been learning about, along with the journal prompts I use at the time of the Full Moon.

What will the Full Moon Reveal for You?
May 25, 2022

Sometimes change asks more of us than we have to give, and we break. Sometimes we recover, but whether we recover or not, there is no going back to what we were before the change. We’re transformed us, forever, into something different than we were before. Here’s why I feel that this degree of change is upon us collectively now, and why I feel hopeful even in the midst of all that’s happening around the world.

Change… and Hope
April 25, 2022

An earth-floor, deep-litter system​ has big benefits for the health and well-being of ​chickens, and it’s also the easiest way I know to build an ongoing compost creation system in which most of the work is done for you. ​This article shares ​what we’ve learned about ​deep-litter composting ​since we built ​our new earth floor chicken shed​ in 2019.

Deep Litter Composting With Chickens
April 13, 2022

Ideas and tips for tuning into Nature’s cycles to help us re-create the depth of meaning and connection that has been all but lost as the “consumer religion” has swept around the globe.

Reclaiming Meaning for Our Holy Days
March 28, 2022

The Equinoxes – the time of balanced light and dark at the midway point through Autumn and Spring – provide an opportunity to examine how we’re managing the balancing act between doing and resting. This short post shares an uncommon idea for our culture and our times: “It is safe to rest.”

Balancing Busy-ness with Rest
March 14, 2022

Recently I began to appreciate the sheer beauty of the Mexican tarragon in my garden. Then I learned what a delicious iced tea it makes, and from there I discovered its huge array of potential uses in the kitchen, the medicine cabinet, and the garden.

Mexican Tarragon
February 28, 2022

The lunar cycle holds wonderful opportunities for learning and growth, and for reconnecting with Nature’s wisdom. This post explores what the waning moon and the still, empty, “mid-winter” moment at the dark of the moon have to teach us.

​What the Waning Moon can Teach Us about ​​​Connection ​​and Support
February 21, 2022

What is “happy meat?” ​Is meat-eating inherently destructive, or can we have “happy ecosystems” along with happy meat? ​What does meat-eating mean for human health on a more-than physical level? And what about avoiding eating animal products because you care about ​animals’ welfare?

Happy Meat, Happy Ecosystems, Happy People
February 14, 2022

This super-short post has some commentary on home-dairying, a tongue-in-cheek recipe for raw-milk banana milkshake, and something easy and useful to do with your egg whites when you only need the yolks. There are also a few links to related resources that I hope you’ll find helpful.

Home Dairying, Banana Milkshakes, and Spare Egg Whites
February 7, 2022

​​Pictures and commentary from our garden​, ​a super-simple recipe for banana milkshake (simple only if you don’t count the steps that bring the milk to the kitchen)​, and a brief mention of one useful thing to do with your egg whites when you only need the yolks.

Farm Update: In the Garden
January 31, 2022

​What gardeners do ​is somewhere on a continuum from controlling the ​life (and death) cycles in the garden, to managing them, to interacting intelligently with them. We tend to default to ​control because of our culturally ingrained assumption that without control there will be chaos and anarchy.

​​This has implications far beyond the garden. How do our ​​assumptions about the need for control shape our world?

Moving from Control Toward Intelligent Interaction, in Gardening and in Life
January 24, 2022

The possible uses for bananas–the fruit, the foliage, and the trunks–seem almost endless. In this article I share lots of images and ideas for using banana patches as mulch producers and for an erosion control project.

Bananas for Mulch Production and Erosion Control
January 17, 2022

The best way to get more effective at growing your own food is to make it super easy to eat something directly from your garden on a daily basis. Here are 5 categories of low-maintenance food plants (or plant parts) you might have been overlooking, and strategies for using them to build more food sovereignty into your life.

How to Make Home Grown Food Simpler and Easier
December 28, 2021

Examine and learn from the year gone by, to make your New Year resolutions far more effective. Or use this process during any kind of ending and new beginning.

5 Questions to Help You Learn From Last Year and Make the Most of This Year
December 16, 2021

An index of all the “Empowered Thinking” posts written on ARealGreenLife in 2021.

All “Empowered Thinking” Posts for 2021
December 7, 2021

Where those difficult emotions might be coming from, what might be amplifying them, and why it’s important to be gentle with yourself when they show up.

Difficult Emotions are Allies in Disguise
December 6, 2021

Ginger has thrived at our place since I learned to think about what it gives and what it needs in terms of its connections to the other plants around it, to me as the ginger-grower, and to me and my family as the ginger-users.

Ginger in a RealFood Garden
December 6, 2021

The success of your food garden depends on the connections between the plants and each other, and between the plants, you, and your kitchen (and also your medicine cabinet).

How to Plan a Food Garden
November 15, 2021

The “bus” I’m talking about is entire populations of people all gabbling without listening to one another and without thinking clearly. The bus is hurtling toward a cliff, with no-one in the driver’s seat. ​The opinions, the conflict, the angst, are all fueling the bus. Here’s how to understand what’s going on, and how to disengage from the insanity.

Get Off the Bus
November 8, 2021

You have a limited amount of mental space and its up to you to choose what to fill it with. In this post, I’ll share 3 practices for using our thinking to “bring ourselves home.”

3 Ways to Bring Ourselves Home
November 1, 2021

We’re so in the habit of controlling each other or being controlled that we’ve forgotten how to think for ourselves. We’re so overwhelmed by the challenges we face that we assume there’s nothing we can do (and it’s all our fault). And we assume that controlling each other is necessary and failing was inevitable because humans are just basically bad.

​Let’s explore how we might replace ​these habits and assumptions with more empowered ways of thinking.

Empowered Thinking for Deep Change
October 18, 2021

Loofahs are easy to grow. You can eat them when they’re small, and if you let them get big they make great bathroom sponges. They also make pretty good kitchen sponges. Best of all, when they wear out you can compost them to feed next year’s loofahs.

Loofah – Grow Your Own Sponges
October 11, 2021

Yacon tubers are sweet, crunchy, and delicious raw or cooked, and are a firm favorite in our family. This post is a quick introduction to yacon and my experiences with growing and eating it.

An Introduction to Sweet, Crunchy Yacon
October 2, 2021

The moon influences the ocean and its tides, the flow of sap and the life force in our gardens, and the behavior of many different birds, animals, and crustaceans. If we choose to pay attention, it can also indicate ways that we humans can align ourselves with the rhythms and cycles of life in our efforts to bring ourselves back into harmony with nature.

The Dark Moon – Realigning Ourselves With the Rhythm of Life
September 26, 2021

The Equinoxes mark the two points in the year round of the seasons where the number of hours of daylight and darkness are roughly equal, and so they are a good time to invite balance into our lives. This post introduces the Wheel of the Year and shares my Journaling practice for the Equinoxes.

Spring Equinox – Journaling to Invite Balance
September 20, 2021

Pesto can be made with any herb or combination of herbs and even leafy vegetables. When all you see in your garden is edible leafy greens, pesto is a great way to serve up all that nutrition in a form that’s easy and appealing to eat.

Herb Pesto (and Mulberry Milkshake)
September 13, 2021

The kids’ll be up soon and looking for breakfast. The cow needs milking and the calf pen needs cleaning. I just have time before all that starts, to show you some pics of the new calf, our recent veggie garden harvests, and the chickweed in the lawn that we’re putting into salads.

Farm Update: New Calf, Chickweed Salads, Veggie Harvest
August 30, 2021

21st century science now finally agrees with Eastern philosophy and Indigenous wisdom that we share a common field of consciousness. It’s hidden in plain site, all around us all the time. It’s even more under-appreciated and under-utilized ​than ​the other forms of “the commons” that we share.

The Commons, Common Sense, and a Common Field of Consciousness
August 23, 2021

Our ancestors’ ingenuity and know-how kept them alive for untold generations – long enough for us to come along. Everything they knew is still available to us. We’re just not using it because it’s gone missing from the stories we tell ourselves.

Let’s Choose a More Empowering Story
August 8, 2021

Here are two ideas for preserving leafy greens. The first is a bit of an experiment. The second is a tried and true favorite in my kitchen.

2 Ways to Preserve Leafy Greens From Your Veggie Garden
August 2, 2021

Long, flexible mulberry branches + pieces of old veggie net = caterpillar-proofed veggies.

Irrigation for our Modular Veggie Garden
July 25, 2021

Introducing the metaphorical “seasons” of birth/emergence, growth, full bloom, harvest, decay, death, and re-emergence. We misunderstand the seasons of decay and death, so we go to extraordinary lengths to avoid them – which means we miss out on the gifts of inner growth they have to offer.

The Cycle of Life
July 11, 2021

How to build a pond for tadpoles and frogs that will ​also grow food-producing water plants and edge plants. Includes diagrams, pictures, plant list, and frog resources.

7 Steps to a Frog Pond that Also Grows Food
July 4, 2021

There are 3 core skill sets that I believe can help us live together in more compassionate, just, sustainable, and enjoyable ways. I call them: Internal Self-parenting Skills, Sustainable Living Skills, and Relationship Skills.

The ​3 ​Skill Sets ​​​We Need for a ​​Kinder Culture
June 15, 2021

Long, flexible mulberry branches + pieces of old veggie net = caterpillar-proofed veggies.

How to Make a Frame for a Veggie Net using Mulberry Branches
June 14, 2021

Ideas for modular gardening — smaller, easier, more enjoyable.

Modular Veggie Growing with Cut Off Barrels
April 27, 2021

Most of us, most of the time, do ​the things we do ​for stick, carrot, or avoidance reasons. ​But to really thrive, ​we need to do things for gift reasons.

The Stick, the Carrot, and the Gift
April 9, 2021

Some of what you might want to know before choosing if and how you’ll use stevia-based sweeteners, along with tips on growing and using your own stevia plants.

The Stevia Dilemma
March 22, 2021

The ease and comfort of a modern life aren’t all they were cracked up to be in terms of deep satisfaction and a sense of meaning and purpose.

Seeing Through the Seductions of Science and Technology
March 7, 2021

Home-based herbal medicine is an easy, accessible practice. Here are 9 quotes from herbalists about the oldest and simplest medicine in the world — so simple, a child can do it.

The People’s Medicine
February 28, 2021

Switching from synthetic personal care products to simple, natural alternatives means giving up superficial attributes like foam, fragrance, and texture​, which are achieved using toxic ingredients​. This article explores how we got so dependent on these products and shares 3 ideas we can rely on in our efforts to get back to natural.

Transitioning from Toxic to Natural
February 22, 2021

Essential oils are highly concentrated and extremely powerful, are harvested and processed on an industrial scale, have big impacts on plants and communities, and should be used sparingly, with caution and respect.

Essential Oils: Some Things to Consider
February 14, 2021

Tooth cleaning did not begin with plastic toothbrushes or medieval concoctions. We’ve been cleaning our teeth since probably before we walked upright on two legs. Here’s how it was done (and in many parts of the world, still is).

Nature’s Original Toothbrush
February 1, 2021

How I came to swear by yarrow (Achillea millefolium) for oral health care and particularly for gum health.

Yarrow for Oral Care
February 1, 2021

The herb yarrow (Achillea millefoleum) has many uses. Its particularly well known for its ability to quickly stop blood loss and help heal wounds.

Yarrow for Wound First Aide
November 30, 2020

Regenerative gardening and farming has an intention to both feed people AND to leave the surrounding web of life stronger, richer, more complex and more resilient, rather than less so.

Regenerative Farming and Gardening
November 21, 2020

This post uses a pumpkin patch to illustrate how interrelated elements in a vegetable garden, an orchard, or any living system, are healthier and happier than isolated fragments of life existing alone.

Building Ecosystems as a Side-Effect of Growing Food
November 15, 2020

A vegetable from the tropical highlands of Papua New Guinea, rungi (Rungia klossii) is an attractive, edible, nutritious year-round ground cover for the tropics and semi-tropics.

Rungi – Rainforest Floor Vegetable
November 9, 2020

Sweet Violet (Viola odorata), is a shade-tolerant, ground-covering edible plant with a long list of nutritive and medicinal uses.

Sweet Violet – Edible, Medicinal, Beautiful
November 1, 2020

The logical mind wants to muscle its way to the results we want; when muscle is inadequate to the task, we think we’ve failed and we’re out of options.
The heart, on the other hand, is not afraid to invoke the results we want by the quality of our attention and the power of our desire to give what we don’t physically have to give.

When “Do Something” Fails, There is Another Way
October 30, 2020

How women, and older women in particular, can contribute to peace and well-being for families, communities, and the wider web of life.

Expanding on the Grandmother Effect
October 26, 2020

Logical, rational thinking understandably sees things as separate. ‘I am me; everything else is something “other” than me.’ There is another way to see things. Through a lens of interbeing, I am still me, but now I recognize that I’m closely related to everything that the mindset of separation calls “other.”

Through the Lenses of Separation vs Interbeing
October 19, 2020

In our culture, control and separation are given more importance than compassion and relationship.
To illustrate what I mean, here’s a comparison between the dominant approach to healthcare and the marginalized, “alternative” approaches.

The Dominant Healthcare Approach vs Marginalized Alternatives
October 12, 2020

Real food is more expensive than supermarket food if you measure only in dollars. But to measure something you have to isolate it from the other things it relates to, which reduces it to a limp, disconnected copy of itself. Real food that’s still connected to the rest of life provides us with some kinds of nourishment that supermarket food can’t.

Supermarket Food is Like a Tiger in a Zoo
October 7, 2020

The problem with focusing on carbon accounting is that it leads people on both sides of the debate into thinking that so long as we emit less carbon/sequester more carbon, business can otherwise continue as usual and everything will be ok.

Why Carbon Accounting Isn’t Working and What We Need to Do Instead
October 7, 2020

Why We Doubt Our Intrinsic Worth This is a super-short post; just a few seconds to readOur culture measures the worth of children in “good behavior” that reflects well on parents, caregivers, and teachers. We measure the worth of adults in terms of visible wealth, status, followers, beauty (defined by very narrow criteria), youth, and power. No

Why We Doubt Our Intrinsic Worth
August 15, 2020

Assuming you’re eating the healthiest plant foods, grown in the healthiest soil, that you can find or afford, what else can you do to increase your mineral intake without using pills?

Easy, Natural Ways to Increase the Available Minerals in Your Diet
August 7, 2020

Minerals are ​essential to life, but they’ve become dramatically less available to us in the food we eat. This article explores why.

What’s Happened to Your Mineral Intake?
July 25, 2020

Wild edibles (aka weeds) provide better nutrition than supermarkets ever can, for free.

Weeds: Real Nutrition for Free
June 25, 2020

Okinawa spinach (Gynura crepioides) is an edible, nutritious, prolific, and low maintenance ground covering plant. It looks good enough to landscape with. And the more you eat it, the better it looks.

Okinawa Spinach
June 13, 2020

“Normal” is what we see around us all the time. “Natural” remembers the connection and belonging within which we emerged as a species. An absence of the connections that were natural for us leaves us uneasy, disorientated, and prone to suspicion and hostility.

How “Normal” Keeps Us from Being Fully Human
May 29, 2020

Stinging nettle (Urtica dioica) has a long ​history of use ​for ​food, medicine, cordage, and dye. Here are some ideas ​for ​​making use of the ​free food and fertilizer ​that this under-appreciated weed has to offer.

Stinging Nettle: Nourishment for You and Your Garden
May 1, 2020

About ​how the ginger ​growing in ​our garden has inspired successful homemade sauerkraut in ​our kitchen, which in turn has inspired better maintenance of the ginger plants in ​the garden. Sauerkraut recipe included.

Homemade Ginger Sauerkraut
April 17, 2020

Queensland arrowroot ​(Cana edulis) provides food for us, food for chickens, pigs, cattle and goats, mulch and/or compost material, and shelter for other plants. It’s super easy to grow and to harvest and it self-propagates to a certain extent but is not weedy or invasive. And I think it looks beautiful. What more could a polyculture food grower ask?

How to Harvest and Use Queensland Arrowroot
March 25, 2020

(10th in a Series) When you do the deep personal work necessary to give up conflict (internal and external), this invisible choice wields power out of all proportion to its humble appearance.

Why Your Least Visible Work is Your Most Important Work
March 24, 2020

Organ meats were among the most prized foods humans ate prior to industrialization. Here’s why, along with how to start eating them again.

Why We Stopped Eating Organ Meats, What We’re Missing, and How to Start Again
March 20, 2020

(9th in a Series) As within, so without. How we care for our innermost selves, each other, and our planet, are all linked. As urgent as it may seem to address those issues “out there,” it’s essential to begin “in here.”

Why Your Most Important Responsibility is Taking Care of You
March 9, 2020

(8th in a Series) In our make-it-happen culture, making a difference to anything means grunting and sweating, burning the candle at both ends, making herculean efforts. It’s an that approach keeps us in battle mode and sustains drama and conflict.

On Making the Least Change for the Greatest Effect
March 6, 2020

(7th in a Series) There are ways to set up your distractions on purpose so that they still lead you in the right direction.

How to Go From “Distracted” to “On Track” with these 2 Simple Strategies
February 28, 2020

(6th in a Series) The idea that you need motivation and will power to reach your goals is part of a story that says if we use enough of the right kind of force, we’ll get to the goal. There is an easier way.

Are You Going After Your Goals the Hard Way or the Easy Way?
February 21, 2020

(5th in a Series) By prioritizing what is important over what is urgent, you can live a more spacious, meaningful, satisfying life.

Is it Important, or Merely Urgent?
February 14, 2020

(4th in a Series) How your taking care of your “response-ability”—your ability to choose your own responses—increases your personal power and expands your influence.

The Power to Make a Difference
February 8, 2020

(3rd in a Series) How to focus your energy where you can be most effective, rather than wasting it on things that you cannot make any difference to.

Are You Acting on Life or Is Life Acting on You?
February 1, 2020

(2nd in a Series) Here is a way of looking at even the really big challenges that breaks them down to a manageable size.

One Moment at a Time
January 29, 2020

(1st in a Series) Everything we need to create a more just, alive, abundant and beautiful world exists today. Why aren’t we using it?

There is Only One Place to Begin
November 13, 2019

The best way to have healthy, happy chickens is to integrate them tightly into a thriving, bustling ecosystem that benefits from their presence, rather than allowing them to spread out in a sparse ecosystem that they steadily ​degrade because it is unable to support them.

Beyond Eggs: How to Keep Chickens Happy in Confinement
October 30, 2019

Deep litter bedding for chickens mimics the forest floor environment they evolved in, builds their health, provides them with entertainment, and captures fertility for soil building. Here is why we decided to try confinement on deep litter with no outside foraging.

Beyond Eggs – 8 Advantages of Deep Litter Housing for Chickens
October 28, 2019

Chickens can either be very helpful to gardeners, or incredibly destructive. How can we harvest all that chickens have to offer, in ways that keep everybody happy, healthy, and productive?

Beyond Eggs – Pros and Cons of Free Range and Mobile Pens
October 13, 2019

Self-determination is the ability to re-parent ourselves: to learn new ways of being that make it easier for us to out-grow consumerism and all the forms of separation and alienation from each other and from nature that have befallen us.

Out-Growing Consumerism 5: What We Must Do
October 12, 2019

What too many ​children learn at school is not to take risks and not trust ​their own thinking. When digital data-harvesting ​enters the mix, ​it becomes the perfect recipe for producing compliant consumers.

Out-Growing Consumerism 4: School, Screens, and Our Kids
October 4, 2019

If you choose to keep growing as an adult, you’ll become increasingly self-actualized and self-reliant, and less dependent on corporate providers. This is very BAD NEWS for the growth economy, which is why no profit-focused corporation will ever fund government policies to encourage the public to behave like this.

Out-Growing Consumerism 3: A Self-determined Life
September 27, 2019

Better questions lead to more informed choices, enabling you to live a life designed by you rather than one that’s handed to you as a member of the consumer culture.

Out-Growing Consumerism 2: An Act of Subversion
September 21, 2019

Having monetized everything else, in order to keep growing the consumer economy now needs to monetize the space inside your head.

Out-Growing Consumerism 1: What Should Never Have Been For Sale
July 22, 2019

Electric fencing works very effectively for pigs, but only if they get the right first impressions of it. Here are the steps we take to train our piglets to stay behind electric fences, without terrifying them in the process.

Raising Pigs – Fence Training
July 5, 2019

6 ​Salad bowl contenders that can handle heat and high humidity. ​The 7th plant can make a nutritious salad by itself if you have the right growing niche for it. Plus a tip on getting the most nutrition from your salad greens. UPDATED July 2023.

7 Easy Substitutes for When Lettuce Won’t Grow
May 4, 2019

Feeding ​the pigs, as they grow bigger, ​can ​easily degenerate into a full body contact sport in which the pig ​wins and the amateur pig-raiser ​gets discouraged and gives up on homegrown pork. Is there a way to keep pig-raising ​enjoyable when those cute little piglets are no longer cute?

Raising Pigs – Can pigs learn table manners?
May 4, 2019

Why we buy piglets rather than breeding our own; preparing for their arrival and minimizing the stress of their transition; what to feed them; a few thoughts on choosing heritage breeds versus modern breeds.

Raising Pigs – New Piglets
May 3, 2019

What we have (so far) found to be the pros and cons of mobile versus stationary pig raising systems, and why we are currently trailing a stationary arrangement for our pigs.

Raising Pigs – Mobile Pens vs Pigs in One Place
January 31, 2019

Why the modern healthcare system undermines our families and communities, and how we came to be so dependent on it.

Two Different Kinds of Healthcare – Part 2
January 26, 2019

A brief discussion about modern, quick-fix healthcare versus the slow lane – at-home healthcare that calls for a foundation of healthy living and a healthy social network (not the Twitter kind).

Two Different Kinds of Healthcare – Part 1
November 5, 2018

How I got from “I don’t think I could grow brassicas,” to “Ooh look – a cauliflower!”

Real Food does not come from Supermarkets: 6 Steps from Bare Ground to Homegrown Veggies
October 20, 2018

This post shares the funny things one of our roosters gets up to, and it concludes the Backyard Chicken Series with the question, “Can good husbandry, regenerative agriculture, and morally right living, be defined in terms of happiness and connection?”

How Roosters ​​Care for Hens (and what happiness has to do with regenerative agriculture)
October 12, 2018

Doesn’t happiness – even “just” the happiness of some hen in a backyard hen house somewhere, count towards a more whole, more beautiful world, a world that has a little more rightness about it?

Mama Hens and Baby Chicks
September 29, 2018

Why our efforts to address ecological destruction aren’t working yet, and how backyard chickens (or any other living thing that you care for) can help.

Broody Hens and Musings on Inter-Connectedness
September 3, 2018

This article lists 5 plants for a cut and carry goat fodder system, that also serve lots of other needs as well.

5 Cut and Carry Goat Fodder Plants that Poultry, Pigs, Cattle and People can also eat
June 25, 2018

8 of my favorite multi-purpose fodder-and-food plants, and some of the ways I use them.

8 Abundant Fodder Forest Plants, & How to Use Them
June 17, 2018

Are there aspects of remembering and sharing a story that cannot be digitally preserved?

Why We Need Non-digital Ways of Remembering and Sharing Experiences
April 12, 2018

Did we lose more than we gained when we advanced from “social mammal” to “modern individual”?

Getting Together
March 11, 2018

At the supermarket you can get everything you need at one location and it’s cheaper than anywhere else. But when it seems too good to be true, there’s usually a catch. In this article we’ll explore the complex web of connections and consequences attached to the cheap convenience on the supermarket shelves.

Ditching the Supermarket
March 7, 2018

You don’t have to be a passive recipient of the programming that surrounds you. You can BE the programmer.

Thinking for yourself
December 31, 2017

What we eat illuminates the relationship—or lack of it—between us and our natural world. It also directly influences the way our living planet is used.

Real Food
December 31, 2017

“Independent” individuals and nuclear families are artificially sustained by a fossil fuel dependent, growth-at-all-costs system that cannot last. The only viable alternative is to return to living in direct relationship with each other and with the web of life that can sustain us indefinitely, if we care for it as the extension of ourselves that it really is.

An Illusion of Independence
December 6, 2017

You don’t have to live a life and think thoughts that are just handed to you. You can continue growing indefinitely, crafting your own worldview and life-experiences, in an ongoing process of consciously “parenting yourself.”

Growing Up – For Adults
September 1, 2017

Our beginnings in rural Australia and a small town in Switzerland, our meeting in Colorado, USA, and our switch from Natural Horsemanship to a journey towards real and green.

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