The fabric of wholeness that once gave us a sense of purpose and belonging—connecting us into a web of responsibility, relationships and health among family, community and nature—has come undone.
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Introduction to "Thinking Differently"
The only part of the equation you can control is your own response to it.
To really make a difference to anything, and for that difference to stick, you need to start with the only thing you have any real power over – yourself.
It may seem counter-intuitive, but by prioritizing your self and your own habits of thought and action, you hone the most important tool you have for working on whatever matters to you.
Your identity, ideology and worldview determine the thoughts you think, which determine how you experience the world and how you are able to influence it.
We won't succeed in solving the challenges we face by continuing with the same kinds of thinking that caused them."
Albert Einstein
Thinking Differently on ARealGreenLife
On other green living blogs you'll find lots of "what-to-do" and "how-to-do-it." These are very helpful, and I join the chorus in my Sustainable Living topic archive.
But how-to's, I believe, are secondary.
In my opinion, "what-to-do" and "how-to-do-it" become much more useful tools for real change if we couple them with "who-I-really-am" and "why-I'm-doing-it."
The better you know yourself and understand your habits of thought and behavior, the more effective you'll be at augmenting the useful habits and letting go of the rest.
If you're aware of the influences on your thinking, you can choose to either "keep listening," or "switch channels" to something that's more supportive of who you want to be and how you want to live.
This topic—Thinking Differently—is where I explore the ideology that gives rise to the kind of world we live in, who we think we are and how much power we think we have in the world.
Thinking Differently Post Collections
Use the links to jump to a post collection. The first two links will take you to SERIES of posts that have their own pages; the rest are to the COLLECTIONS listed below. Many posts appear in more than one collection.
GROWING UP - FOR ADULTS
Parenting yourself is the most important work you'll ever do.
You can't wait till you're perfect before you show up and take action, but you can be gentle with yourself, commit to your own growth and learning, be mindful of what influences your thinking, and consciously choose how you will respond to the world around you.
This collection includes:
- When Nothing You Can Do Makes a Difference - a 10-Part Series,
- Out-Growing Consumerism - a 4-Part Series,
- and the other articles you see in the grid below.
“Independent” individuals and nuclear families are artificially sustained by a fossil fuel dependent, growth-at-all-costs system that cannot last. The only viable alternative is to return to living in direct relationship with each other and with the web of life that can sustain us indefinitely, if we care for it as the extension of ourselves that it really is.
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RECONNECTING
"It was in [a setting of belonging and connection] that we emerged as a species. Our profound feelings of lacking something are not a reflection of personal failure, but the reflection of a society that has failed to offer us what we were designed to expect."
~ Francis Weller
"The idea that we live in something called 'the environment' is utterly preposterous... The world that environs us, that is around us, is also within us. We are made of it; we eat, drink, and breathe it; it is bone of our bone and flesh of our flesh."
~ Wendell Berry
The logical mind wants to muscle its way to the results we want; when muscle is inadequate to the task, we think we’ve failed and we’re out of options.
The heart, on the other hand, is not afraid to invoke the results we want by the quality of our attention and the power of our desire to give what we don’t physically have to give.
Logical, rational thinking understandably sees things as separate. ‘I am me; everything else is something “other” than me.’ There is another way to see things. Through a lens of interbeing, I am still me, but now I recognize that I’m closely related to everything that the mindset of separation calls “other.”
(1st in a Series) Everything we need to create a more just, alive, abundant and beautiful world exists today. Why aren’t we using it?
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OUT-GROWING CONSUMERISM
A collection of rants about living in a culture that's consumed by consumerism.
"Consumerism is a dependency treadmill, on which we spend our lives pursuing the next new thing that will surely, at last, bring peace of mind and happiness."
~ Out-Growing Consumerism, the Series
“Independent” individuals and nuclear families are artificially sustained by a fossil fuel dependent, growth-at-all-costs system that cannot last. The only viable alternative is to return to living in direct relationship with each other and with the web of life that can sustain us indefinitely, if we care for it as the extension of ourselves that it really is.
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OUT GROWING CONSUMERISM: Our Journey
A series of articles about our family's journey from "normal" towards "real and green."
This collection shares where Alain and I came from, the experiences that shaped us, and the realizations that prompted us to jump ship from a globetrotting lifestyle in the Natural Horsemanship industry to become homeschooling parents and home grown food advocates.
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